Today I was partied to a discussion regarding women and whether or not they dress for the admiration of men, the acceptance or envy of other women or themselves...the consensus was pretty much evenly distributed in most areas meaning that most women when asked picked one of these answers as their motivation to look good. I was deeply disturbed at the amount of women who said they dress solely based upon the opinions of others. This natural process has taught me that everyone is a critic, ourselves being the worst. It is easier and in my opinion healthier mentally to develop a close intimate relationship with oneself, IE learn your likes and dislikes...make yourself smile...see your own beauty, I mean really see your own beauty, treat yourself, spoil yourself, love on yourself, commit to changing the things you don't like about your self....it is only after these things have been done that we can truly enjoy and contribute unselfishly to a relationship with someone else.